Welcome to Hamilton Law
You have come to the right place if you are in conflict with someone over an animal.
Mediation is a much kinder, gentler choice for the people and animals involved in a conflict. And, I am committed to serving you and your pet in a peaceful manner so everyone is heard, respected and understood.
We Are A Mediation Practice
forging new frontiers to help pet owners, pet service providers and those passionate about animals who find themselves embroiled in conflict, live and serve more peacefully with and for animals. We help everyone remain focused on the best outcome for the animal and the people who are their champions. Sometimes the needs of the animal get lost in the people’s disagreement or their ego gets the better of them. We help everyone come to a desirable understanding that helps the animal while those who disagree find a workable solution. It is simple once you feel heard.
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MAAP Short and Long Term Pet Care Planning Community Call -- October 28 | Hosting | 6:30 pm EDT
Are you doing everything you possibly can to make sure you and your loved ones stay healthy and safe during this pandemic?
Have you made your pet's MAAP pet care plan yet? There really is no time like the present to "Get'er done"
If you haven't yet, I want to encourage you to come to our weekly MAAP Pet Care Planning community call at 6:30 pm to get started.
There's still time for you to register for this week's webinar:
Partnering With A Guide Dog: A Conversation About Living and Leading With A Disability | Oct 28th | 12:30 -2:00 pm EST | Moderating
Vet Show @ Home – Stop License Review | Presenting | October 29 2020 | 12:00pm to 12:50pm
With two Clinical Theaters, a Vet Tech Theather, and a Business Theater, there is something for everyone at the Vet Show @ Home.
Don't miss the opportunity to earn up to 20 RACE-approved CE credits and enhance your sense of community through this one of a kind online event. Register for free today!
I'm honored to be teaching the techniques of mindfulness, steeped in the Stop, Drop and Roll program, which will give attendees an easy method to implement self-care tools while also responding to their clients and staff during these uncertain times.
Stop, Drop and Roll helps practitioners take the temperature of a room and assess how everyone is feeling, thereby enabling them to shift oppositional thinking [their own and others] to foster better dialogues and outcomes in even the thorniest of situations.
Attendees will leave this short Town Hall with an acute ability to read reactions to trauma brought on as a side effect of COVID-19, while understanding that others are responding differently to difficult circumstances and situations. Maintaining mindfulness and responding with empathy is key.
About Vet Show @ Home
Vet Show @ Home is featuring 80 hours of CE, the very best education from world-renowned speakers, AI-powered matchmaking with top suppliers, thought-leading roundtable discussions, and many hours of networking opportunities. You can earn 20 RACE-approved CE credits and enhance your sense of community while doing so. Best of all -- it’s FREE to attend!
Conference Times -- Thursday, October 29 and Friday, 30, 2020 9:00 am to 7:00 pm ET
Conflict Resolution & the Accessibility of Meetings | October 15th & 16th -- 1:00 - 3:00 pm EDT | Co-Presenting with Gary C. Norman
COVID-19 has caused a historic change and will continue to cause fundamental shifts in how we socialize and how we work as dispute resolvers.
Knowing how to host a meeting, and yes even mediations on-line, is an important set of skills to acquire and to perfect.
Diversity and Inclusion need to incorporate clients and practitioners with disabilities, and therefore, accessibility concerns must be at the forefront during this transition to the more prevalent use of ADR post-COVID-19.
You can learn more about the workshop here: https://
In part, this valuable training is a celebration of the achievements fostered by the Americans with Disabilities Act of 1990 (A.D.A)
Without a doubt, it's an honor and a privilege to co-present this workshop with a blind person who is a rising voice in the training world.
This would not have been possible before the A.D.A.
There is no question about it, a lot of collaborative work remains to be done. There are simply too few visible leaders with disabilities who are actively shaping A.D.R. policy.
We are 100% committed to continuing the conversation on ensuring accessibility of A.D.R. for everyone.
Gary and I are leveraging our different platforms to include all groups, all races, all abilities to champion the broadest form of Diversity and Inclusion during this awakening moment in history.
We Work With
Conflicts over animals arise in every area of life including marriage, divorce, malpractice, trust and estates, civil, criminal, and contract law. Whether your disagreement is with an ex-spouse, neighbor, veterinarian, pet service provider or their staff, mediation is the one and only means of telling your story and having the opportunity to hear your counterpart’s story in a safe environment. You are always able to sue, but wouldn’t you prefer to tell your side of the story first and see if a resolution can be achieved?
Through the mediation process, I help people tell their story and address the conflict that precipitated the conflict. Mediation provides a proven, step-by-step, peaceful method of allowing the parties to communicate with each other effectively, directly or online, addressing the issues that have come between them, quickly and with respect. We help everyone feel they are part of the win-win solution.
Think about the last time you had a conflict. Maybe it involved your beloved pet or the pet of another. The sustained fear of addressing the conflict overtook your life. You suffered in silence or you waited too long to say anything and then exploded in a way you had never intended. The after effect of such an exchange may result in losing the right to see your dog in divorce, returning to the veterinarian you like and respect, maintaining a relationship with a dog walker or destroying a longtime relationship with a breeder or owner.
Have you ever dreamed of being able to address a disagreement over an animal in a way that sustains a dialogue, educates everyone involved about the underlying cause of the disagreement and provides a happy outcome? Let me share with you how to make that dream a reality and it doesn’t need to be frustrating or complicated.
If you are a veterinarian and want a practice that is filled with happy clients that can’t wait to refer you to their pet-owning friends and acquaintances and employees that are happy and get along, you have come to the right place. Let us help you learn how to easily set up a practice that makes it exciting to get up and go to work every day.
You may be a pet owner with a cranky neighbor who is really upset about your barking dog, a co-owner disagreeing with the future of a pet or a divorcing couple and the pet is the object of contention. You are at each other’s throats. Mediation is the method you should choose to employ first when trying to find a path of least resistance to solution and happier conversations on the matter.
Debra Vey Voda-Hamilton is the principal at Hamilton Law and Mediation, PLLC, (HLM) the first solo mediation practice in the US dedicated to helping people resolve conflicts involving animals.
HLM uses alternative dispute resolution (ADR) to help resolve conflicts ranging from divorce disagreements over the family pet to helping animal rights advocates see the benefit of sitting down with their adversaries and having a neutral discussion before, during & after litigation is initiated.
Debra also works with pet service providers and professionals to help them pursue their passion for helping people and their pets while reducing their exposure to costly litigation.
She presents programs that teach people how to communicate, as a speaker and receiver of information without feeling they need to resort to litigation. Debra is the go-to person for information regarding the use of mediation in disagreements over animals for the NY Times, Wall Street Journal, the Chicago Sun Times, Bloomberg and the US News and World Report.
Debra hosts free online webinars, which teach pet owners and pet service providers how to address conflict in their business or relationships with clients, colleagues or pet service providers. She also helps pet owners and pet service providers aid each other in the creation and implementation of a SIMPLE short and long-term pet care plan. The MAAP Plan enables beloved companion animals get the care their owners want them to have any time their owner is personally not able to care for them.
Debra graduated from Benjamin N. Cardozo Law School in 1983 and was admitted to practice in New York in 1984. Debra is also an AVMA (American Veterinary Medical Association) Certified Workplace Wellbeing Expert.
What Our Clients Are Saying
I contacted Debra when I was having a pet custody dispute with my fiancée after a separation. My fiancée and I were not agreeing that I should be still be involved in our dog’s life and I was devastated.
After having contacted various attorneys to explore my options, I decided to try to search for pet mediators. I came across Debra’s name and some of the publications she had been featured in and decided to reach out to her to find out more about her services.
She was very timely in responding to my initial email and offered me a phone consultation to further discuss my situation. During the phone consultation, Debra was very knowledgeable and attentive regarding my circumstances.
I am pleased to announce that since then, my fiancée and I have come to an agreement where our beloved dog will remain a part of my life. I was very impressed with Debra’s promptness, understanding, and compassion to my situation.
I highly recommend Ms. Hamilton for veterinary mediation and law work. She exudes competence and compassion in all her work and relationships.
We are very impressed with how Debra mediated a recent “in office” conflict among employees.
She gave them the tools, skills, safe space and confidence to resolve the issues that had come between them. Our office is happy again and we recommend her to everyone!
Debra is kind and caring and very skilled in helping resolve issues surrounding our pets. She takes time to listen and offers wonderful guidance.
She recently assisted me with a health issue with one of my dogs and we are working towards a resolution. I would highly recommend Debra. She is dedicated and committed to getting to a positive outcome for all, especially our animals. Thank you, Debra.
Thanks so much Debra for a wonderful seminar!! It was so informative and so much fun!!
It was not only “Playing Nice At The Dog Park” – it was using skills to diffuse any potential conflicts involving our beloved animals.
Using these easy to remember techniques (so hard to think when a dispute flares up unexpectedly) made Debra’s information so valuable!!
Debra can really help with all of our concerns with our animals- creating a care plan for them in case of our illness or accident as well as mediating issues with divorce, landlord or neighbor issues.
Debra is a great speaker and a unique resource we can all use!!
Debra Hamilton is a great resource for pet parents. She taught me that setting up a trust and instructions on how I’d want my dogs cared for if something happened to me was of paramount importance.
It always made me very uncomfortable when my husband and I traveled together. What would become of our four furry babies, should tragedy strike? We don’t want to think that, but unless we’re prepared, our beloved animals are the ones who will possibly suffer.
Today, because of Debra’s insights and follow through, I have a safe haven for each of my dogs. Each trusted caretaker knows exactly how I’d want that pup cared for; their quirks and needs.
We pray this is proactive but never needed, of course, but I know that because of it, I feel so relieved and prepared! I highly recommend Debra for guidance, coaching, and legal services to prepare you to ensure your babies will be in good hands and live the life you’d want them to live.
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