{"id":152,"date":"2013-08-16T18:17:00","date_gmt":"2013-08-16T18:17:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.new.hamiltonlawandmediation.com\/the-neighbor-next-door-3-ways-to-douse-the-flames-of-conflict\/"},"modified":"2014-05-12T15:14:35","modified_gmt":"2014-05-12T15:14:35","slug":"the-neighbor-next-door-3-ways-to-douse-the-flames-of-conflict","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/hamiltonlawandmediation.com\/the-neighbor-next-door-3-ways-to-douse-the-flames-of-conflict\/","title":{"rendered":"The Neighbor Next Door \u2014 3 Ways to Douse the Flames of Conflict"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><\/p>\n<div style=\"clear: both; text-align: center;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.hamiltonlawandmediation.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/08\/19846-Disputes.jpg\" style=\"clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;\"><img decoding=\"async\" border=\"0\" data-src=\"https:\/\/www.hamiltonlawandmediation.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/08\/19846-Disputes.jpg\" title=\"\" alt=\"\" src=\"data:image\/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAAAAACH5BAEKAAEALAAAAAABAAEAAAICTAEAOw==\" class=\"lazyload\" \/><noscript><img decoding=\"async\" border=\"0\" src=\"https:\/\/www.hamiltonlawandmediation.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/08\/19846-Disputes.jpg\" title=\"\" alt=\"\" \/><\/noscript><\/a><\/div>\n<div>I have written early and often about how to solve neighbor disputes involving dogs.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>Today I give you the <b><i>3 Ways to Douse the Flames of Conflict<\/i><\/b>that ignite a bonfire of discomfort as one neighbor addresses a problem with another.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>First-Don\u2019t have this conversation while one or the other of the parties is angry.<\/div>\n<div>Second \u2013 Listen before speaking<\/div>\n<div>Third \u2013 Use the term WE<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>First-Don\u2019t have this conversation while one or the other of the party is angry.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>If you are angry and need to tell the neighbor just what you think about their barking dog or the comments they\u2019ve made about your dog &#8211; STOP!&nbsp; No one can hear what you are saying.&nbsp; The fire of passion in anger cannot be doused with reasoned offerings.&nbsp; Try to wait until you are calm enough to speak or they are calm enough to listen.&nbsp; If you can listen and ask questions that further your knowledge and understanding of the problem, great.&nbsp; Don\u2019t attempt to reason with anyone on fire with the passion of his or her position.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>Second \u2013 Listen before speaking<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>It will always serve you well to do more listening than speaking. &nbsp;People often talk themselves out or find their own solution if you allow them uninterrupted speech.&nbsp; They need to tell you how they feel and a simple, \u201cI understand you\u201d may diffuse the flames more than a discussion on \u2018why you are right and they are wrong\u2019.&nbsp; Listening is an underutilized, yet powerful tool in the arsenal of conflict resolution.&nbsp; Solutions come from conversations that start with silence.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>Third \u2013 Use the term WE<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>It is not your problem.&nbsp; So why are you telling me? &nbsp;I can\u2019t stand it.&nbsp; These are three of the New Philosophies Lucy sings about in <b>You\u2019re a Good Man Charlie Brown<\/b>. &nbsp;I also hear them used in mediations.&nbsp; As silly as they may seem in the song and as committed as Lucy is to her New Philology, they are jokes and not meant to be used as a means of settling a conflict.&nbsp; Understanding that the problem belongs to both parties, not one more than the other, is key to finding a lasting solution.&nbsp; One person says, I am super sensitive to dogs barking, the other says, I think of it as white noise. &nbsp;How can either side reconcile their diametrically opposed understandings and beliefs?&nbsp; By sharing the problem they can share the solution.&nbsp; It starts with the right question. &nbsp;What can we do together to find a solution?<\/div>\n<p><i>By Debra Vey Voda-Hamilton<\/i><\/p>\n<div><a href=\"https:\/\/www.hamiltonlawandmediation.com\/\">www.hamiltonlawandmediation.com<\/a><\/div>\n<span class=\"et_bloom_bottom_trigger\"><\/span>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I have written early and often about how to solve neighbor disputes involving dogs. 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